Usually the Goddesses I choose (or I should say, chose me) are ones I work with. It’s not a simple “I chose you because your interesting” sorta thing. It’s a slow/gradual process with me. I’ll notice little things and symbols. Sometimes during meditation a Goddess will come to me, or during rituals and other magical workings.
So I would recommend start noticing little details. See if you start noticing patterns. Use a dream journal and see if any messages start coming through. Same with guided meditations. If there are any Goddesses you are very drawn to, start leaving offerings. See if anything happens!
I hope that helps some!
No problem! Glad I could help! :)
Yessssss I do! It’s Honey calcite (at the moment) but I also love Fluorite, Celestite, Rainbow Moonstone, Labradorite, Tektite, Amethyst, Amber (even though it’s technically a resin), and a million more.
Well, to begin with, when Selenite is tumbled it will have a “cats eye” like appearance (a shimmery shine). It’ll also (depending on the quality) be much whiter than quartz. While Quartz will be clear and a hint if cloudiness (typically). Another way to tell the difference is to scratch the stone. Selenite is incredibly soft so it’s easily scratched. Quartz on the other hand is much harder and difficult to scratch!
Oh gosh, it’s just years of just working with stones! Every time I get to see a new stone it’s added to my memory bank! Not to mention I’m super obsessed with stones, so if one intrigues me I do a ton of research on it! Anywho, a really great book you can learn from is called "The Crystal Bible" by Judy Hall. It’s probably one of the best books I have come across for crystal info. It has photos, metaphysical properties, where the stones can be found, random useful crystal healing info, etc.
The store is called “Stone Age” and it’s in Tallahassee, FL. :)